integrity....

we are so many things to so many people....sometimes, we behave in ways that are expected of us in certain spaces....

in few spaces, if we are lucky, we are ourselves....rare moments...with our fears, our insecurities, our candidness without fear of rebuke, condemnation or judgement...we are not afraid of being our real selves...the relationship, if we are sharing space, is not at stake if we be ourselves....

there is a lot we would like to be, but we are something....when we are in touch with ourselves....

that is the real "we" ...

to me, such moments, if they happen are moments of life, moments of integrity, moments of rare friendship...unconditional acceptance....we may be with our selves or in a space share...with a fellow human...or with a spiritual master-friend.....

these are spaces for evolution....for growth, spiritually..

real, intrinsic change cannot be created through effort...it is a "happening" in realms of unconditionality....in realms of love....

it is a process of healing....in creation....

a rose does not have to struggle, to try to spread its fragrance....it is just a happening when it is itself.....