conflicts....

we often or rather perenially face situations of being "unable" to decide between options.Even after taking a decision, the conflict afflicts us residually...we are always unsure...

i have found conflict to be an "intrinsic" quality of the mind, given the fact that it "judges" based on comparative nuances.Judgement is always contextual to a frame of reference, a given set of perspectives, which are in no way "absolute".

Can we move a step backwards and observe/witness this....we normally focus on the "content" of conflicts and are unable to resolve/dissolve it...

can we see it differently?

rather than focus on the "content" of conflict, can we focus on the "process" of conflict...

i have done the latter and the results have been awesome....we cannot resolve/dissolve conflicts while operating from realms of the mind, for we are a "part" of the conflict there.Resolution/dissolution naturally emerges when we step back and observe....from beyond the realms of the mind....the "witness" consciousness...

the "witness" consciousness operates from the realms of the "heart"....which is intrinsically "incapable" of conflict....to move there, one has to keep observing until one just "sees" that there is "conflict"...non-judgementally....not it's content.....