inner dialogues....

every moment in our lives , two tracks are in operation - what we show ourselves to be externally and what is our real situation within...even teh words we speak externally are divorced from our thought patterns within.
and it is the inner world thought patterns that manifest outside.
A person i know has a serious relationship problem with his sister.He keeps telling me that he speaks so well to his sister but she never responds. I keep telling him to look within, see what his thoughts are even as he speaks sugary sweet to his sister.
He admits his feelings for her are venomous within.
And this is what his sister responds to, the venom within...
can you see this happen every moment of our life....the asynchronous syndrome between our inner and outer worlds...the fundamental conflcit which needs to be addressed by awareness...